NOT a crazy cat lady

My cat Aulie is over nine years old. We named her Aulie because my husband picked her up on the side of the Highway when she was just a wee kitten in a place called Aulac, New Brunswick. I didn’t consider myself much of a cat person but my youngest Haley was just a baby when Kirk called to say he had rescued this kitten someone had thrown out of a moving vehicle. She was much too young to be taken from her mother but I guess the disgusting people that disposed of her like she was yesterdays trash didn’t much care.

My husband stopped the truck and trailers he was hauling, a set of Seaboard B-trains loaded with fuel and ran down the dark highway to scoop up the wounded, scared kitten. Although she was tiny and her face was beat up she was a beautiful kitten and he loved her instantly. She didn’t share the same sentiment.

We had Aulie vet checked and got the OK to bring her home to be part of our family. She chose me as her human and likes to shower me with attention. Aulie will on occasion warm to Kirk and the girls, mostly when she is hungry or just in the mood but generally she reserves all of her attention for me.

The problem is she does not like to be held or cuddled. She will lay on me and play with my hair or bang her head into my hands to force me to pet her but she does not like to be held. It’s weird, I always thought it had something to do with her early separation from her mother but some days I just think she is a jerk. She is controlling and likes that our relationship be on her terms only. She often sleeps with me when my husband is away working, sometimes she cannot get close enough to me but I cannot put her in my arms. I have often woke to find her watching me. It’s a little creepy but since I am her human I guess it’s normal…right??

A couple of days ago she got quite annoyed with me because I tried to cuddle her. The nerve of me, she stormed away all sullen and bitchy feline like. She also found a new “human” though it is not human at all. I think she truly feels that my Halloween Skello is her mama. She cuddles into her at every opportunity. I want to put Skello away till next year but I just cannot bare to break Aulie’s heart. If she is not eating or doing her lady business she is cuddling with Skello.

It really is the perfect relationship. She can get as close as she wants and Skello doesn’t try to hold or hinder her. Skello is there when she wants and never leaves. Right now she is cuddled up and as content as can be. I think Aulie has found her happy place. It looks like Skello is getting a Santa hat and sticking around!

10 thoughts on “NOT a crazy cat lady

  1. That’s one scary pic. I jumped when it appeared in my reader. 🙂 And your cat looks as if she doesn’t mind at all. Perfectly happy. I don’t think I could have that around the house on a daily basis. ;)x

    1. The first time I noticed her cuddled up to the skeleton it was about 3 am and I was at the dining room table writing. From across the room it looked like the skeleton was moving but it was just her stretching. I almost jumped out of my skin!

  2. I had a cat like that, who refused to be held… but I loved him to bits. He died 3 months ago and broke my little heart. Cats are awesome creatures regardless of what people say.

  3. I love this story 🙂 You always make me smile! My cat never liked to be held either, and would bite everyone except me (occasionally even me if I tried to love her too much) but she did cuddle on her own terms much like Aulie. She was also an orphan…must have something to do with abandonment issues maybe there is a niche market out there for Kitty psychology 😉

  4. Say hello to skello, he looks like a cool guy 😉 thank you very much for sharing, hope you are enjoying your Sunday?

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